i cheated on him because i suspected he was cheating with the lead singer in his band. After I told him, I asked him if he had anything to say and he said that he thinks she came on to him but he's not sure. And I asked him why he didn't make a move on her, and he says "It sounds like you want me to" I asked if she was cute, he said sort of - so I egged him by asking why he didnt make a move then. And he said "Because I'm not like most guys" Would he have a reason to lie to me if it's already over?

You sound very immature and insecure

I know, I am insecure so, what do you think - do you think he's lying or telling the truth?

Magic 8 ball says - I don't freakin know.

You don't deserve him!

^typical air-head woman do us a favor and turn lezzie

Better learn to be nice, or you're never gonna get the woman of your dreams.

nope, I already have her. Nice is for losers. and if theyr'e like the OP, who needs their sorry ass?

You could help to create an atmosphere of LOVE so the rest of us can get lucky. :)

no he isnt the one cheating

Yes, I can read your boyfriends mind let me just dig a little deeper Ah, got it, you're both fucking stupid and although you're his groupie, it's over in his mind.

it sounds like he is not the one sleeping with the lead singer. someone else is. too bad you cheated on him. that was stupid. do you want to break up with him? how could you sleep with someone else if you are in love with him? i ask because i couldn't do it.

Because in my head, I convinced myself they were sleeping together. They spend so much time together, he taught her how to use his music equipment - he leaves her alone in his apartment and she even has a spare key. What other proof would I need?

that would really bother me, too i understand are you in love with him?

Yes, and I dont like the other guy Live and learn right?

wrong! she needs to find a reason NOT to trust innocent until guilty.

dumbass!! I have x platonic gfs like that we even talk about our love interests.

why be with someone you dont trust?

How do you know when to trust someone? She's cute, he's in close contact with her all the time - he has all the opportunity to get with her. I'm just insecure...I need to fix this before I ruin more relationships

i dont build relationships with people i dont trust

dating musicians it's not for sissies i tell you they often do not know what they want. girls pounce on them they are artists and go with the flow. he might love you. does he write songs about you? i couldn't do it. my rockstar dating days are gone. i am alas too weak for it

this is bullshit. You fell for the stereotypes I have a wonderful musician husband who only has eyes for me, no drugs, totally into classical, some say as boring as an acccoutant within the realm of his profession although he is decisive in his tastes and opinions.

i'm just trying to help the OP

You should have told him this bothered you together you could have worked this out.Those feelings are reasonable but cheating on him was not the way to handle it.

she let him know she wants it over passive aggressive

What would you think? She has the keys, he's always with her, he picks her up, drives her around (she just barely learned how to drive), he also helped her take the driving test. But he was honest and told me this.

personally, being a man in that situation there I have a plationic gf I mentor, we talk about each others dates, etc. She's like a siter to me. You are suspicious because you yourself are guilty.

He also took a picture next to her and posted it on his facebook - would you do that with a girl you mentor too?

She has a key to your place? And you hers?