I remember the days when all I really wanted was sex. Ah, those were the Good Old Days! Life was so simple!

now what do you want?

Hard to tell. Lack of death, really. But, since I can't have that, more meaning in life, I guess. :-)

This is what I have against casual sex Men seem to love a woman who will give them NSA sex. Maybe the women think they're hanging around with like-minded free-thinking men. But the reality is, even as they're having sex with her, they're judging her as a slut unworthy of a relationship. When they're done having sex with such women, they'll go find one of the "respectable" women who wouldn't have sex with them previously, and she'll accept him because women don't care about how many partners he's had. The woman who thought she was hanging around with lots of like-minded non-judgmental people finds herself the unwanted outcast, who horny men looking for some easy sex occasionally come to, and leave her when something better comes along. No matter how much I may want sex, I don't want to be that hypocritical asshole. Feel free to share your scathing dissent.

Well, I don't subscribe to that world view The number of partners a woman has means little to me, unless it's an indication of mental unwellness. But if she just likes random sex, I've nothing against it, and it wouldn't stop her from being a Wife Candidate for me. In fact, I prefer women who have more rather than less experience. I'd be the last person to a woman a "slut" (or "respectable" for that matter). Such terms mean nothing to me.

When would I be victimizing someone? Suppose I were in my early xs and experimenting sexually. I had sex with a new girl every month or something, let's say with the mutually acknowledged desire that we want nothing more than casual sex from each other. If that is the case, at the time, nobody is a "victim". If some man, in the future, won't seriously date one of these women because she has slept around, then I think he's being too harsh, and I also blame society for imposing ridiculous standards like that. Of course, it's bad for the woman, but I wouldn't consider my earlier behavior victimizing the woman. If I were in the woman's place (which is what you seem to be suggesting), well, I don't know - I'v never been a woman, so it's hard to say what I would do. I would definitely feel it's wrong for men to judge me because of it, but I also feel that way now, as a man (about my own past, and about men judging women's pasts).

Me too, actually. One of my favorite websites:

and money

I only care about money insofar as it means I may have to work until I drop or take some menial job in the future just to live.

i think about how much roi i can get and how much risk i have to take to get it